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What Makes a Feminist Artist?

By Allyn Gaestel

Last month Paradigm Shift organized a Feminist Artist Showcase at China 1 in Alphabet City. Facing a packed house, musicians performed a diverse array of musical sets, from spoken word to folk to reggae.

The range of performances underlined the diversity of the feminist movement, and the space for self-definition and expression within the movement. I was curious to discover what brought all these people together under the umbrella of “feminist art”.

Performers appreciated the audience’s warm reception and the opportunity to perform in a feminist space. Ricky, from Twilight of the Idle said, “It is important to have a specific place for feminist artists to perform. Women and queer and trans people, which many feminists are, have to work harder to find an audience. We get taken less seriously than straight cisgendered male artists and musicians. We get heckled by audience members, and in some cases believe it or not, by the very person who booked us in the first place.”

Jennifer Ortiz, a spoken word performer and doctoral student at CUNY Graduate Center explained that it is important to support feminist artists in safe spaces, but they also need to expand their audience to spread their message. “I feel it is important for feminists to have their own performance space, however, I am afraid that if feminist works are only displayed at such events, it may in essence be ‘preaching to the choir’. Feminist works need to be showcased at other venues in order to ensure that the message reaches those individuals, particularly young woman, who are unsure or confused as to what feminism truly is.”

The question of reaching out to broader audiences and spreading the feminist message through art was a central theme repeated by many artists. Chantilly said that much of her art doesn’t take an overtly feminist tone, because that isn’t what “hits home” for her listeners. “In a way, I feel like it’s not very productive to write exclusively on feminist topics (music-wise). You can only reach a certain niche of people that way, and at that point you’re just preaching to the choir. To me, the best way to reach people is to write whatever’s in your heart, then embody your ideals in the way you live and set an example.”

Numerous artists emphasized actively living feminism through performance and beyond. Katina Douveas said, “being a feminist for me is being extremely sensitive and vigilant to all forms of oppression, and then doing something about it.”

Jennifer Ortiz explained her own self-assertion as a feminist: “I believe that being a feminist is to take pride in being a woman and about fighting against the grain of societal expectations. In society, women are too often pressured to follow societal rules which tend to be biased in favor of men; being a feminist requires living by your own set of rules that emphasizes being a woman.”

While many artists feel somewhat outside the mainstream music world with their loaded messages, Julie from Twilight of the Idle is optimistic about the feminist art movement: “it’s only a matter of time before a feminist movement becomes concurrent culture.”

And Katina Douveas emphasized the breadth of the feminist movement. “I really believe we all have a feminist inside of us, somewhere, and that deep down, we all know that honoring “differences” and speaking up for those silenced, and for our own silenced voices is really in all of our best interest.”

Feminist artists are working throughout their lives to spread their own definition of feminism. Supportive spaces play an important role for nourishing these activists as they continue to assert themselves in less receptive venues.

Twilight of the Idle is hosting a CD release party Saturday, May 15 at 8pm at Collect Pond 338 Berry St. in Williamsburg.

Contacts for the performers are listed below:

Hosted by Laura Joy, Acoustic Folk Pop & Membership Coordinator, Paradigm Shift
http://www.myspace.com/laurajoymusic

BASTET – “Belly Dance For Change”, Experimental belly dance troupe
http://www.bastetbellydance.com

BARNACLE BILL, Folk / Soul / Reggae
http://www.myspace.com/barnaclebillmusic

CHANTILLY, Singer-Songwriter
Picture Feist and Joni Mitchell jamming in a Brooklyn warehouse
http://www.myspace.com/chantillysongs

JENNIFER ORTIZ, Spoken Word Poet
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=54705567&ref=profile

JULIA WELDON, Folk Indie Rock
http://www.myspace.com/juliaweldon

KATINA DOUVEAS, Spoken Word Poet
http://blogs.myspace.com/katinakatina

MS. INDIA.M, R&B/ Soul / Jazz / Alternative
http://www.reverbnation.com/msindiam

TWILIGHT OF THE IDLE, Queer Cabaret Wordrock
http://www.myspace.com/twilightoftheidle

View event photos on facebook!

Brittany – a poem by Cristina Dominguez

Writing and I’m freed
freed and I’m writing
writing
the need that I keep fighting

Turn the page,
ignore the cage
the cell that I’ve sealed myself in
the sin that it is to keep within
these thoughts and feelings that should be told

the toll
what I’ve done to my soul
out of
yet in control
taking hold
heart beating bold

pain and breath behind sealed lips
Death of my reality
my spirituality
imprisoning what I’m envisioning
not me in my totality

Completely confined
confiding my truth
my root
in the ground
deep down
I hide
I’m blind
I’m dry
without tears
I lie
you died

and now I’ve left behind
the part of me that’s free
am I fighting losing you by losing me?
I can’t let go of the you in me
I hope these words raise you up
how they’ve weighed me down
maybe my liberty
is your eternity

Oh Brittany
Can you forgive that I live on
and you’re gone
Is it really living?
I’m holding on

Let these words touch your face
in a place that you deserve
Can these words serve
to find me
I’m hiding
with these words

Last day to buy tickets for the Gala Benefit Dinner: Honoring 21 Leaders for the 21st Century 2010

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Cocktail Reception 6:00 p.m.
Dinner 7:00 p.m.
Jumeirah Essex House
160 Central Park South
New York City

See the website for details: http://www.womensenews.org/21Leaders

Brokeback Marriages: bisexual activity in traditional marriages

In the rainbow of the bisexual community, one more complicated stripe is the practicing bisexual in a traditional marriage. Based on the situation presented in the award winning motion picture, Brokeback Mountain, we call these “Brokeback Marriages”

In the worst case, the extramarital sexual activity is done under cover of dark, or behind closet doors. This is when same sex affairs happen without the consent or knowledge of the opposite sex betrothed. In the best case, the practicing bisexual has come to full awareness and has negotiated the terms of the play beyond the traditional monogamous paradigm.

In either case, that path from closet to open self acceptance can be as uniquely harrowing as any coming out story. Have you been in such a situation or would you like to work through the “What if it were me?” scenarios? Does every playful partner have to come out as bisexual or is the negotiation with the marriage partner the real hurdle? How does the bisexual activity make this different from any other extramarital affair? And in the larger context, when if ever will our society be ready to accept such an arrangement? Or must couples who work it out just be moving to their own kind of closet.. from their families, from their neighbors, from their friends?

Gather with bi and bi-friendly folk to explore the landscape of the Brokeback. Share your own experiences or wonder outloud how you would deal with a wandering partner, or your own lustful temptations. Or just hang out and listen to what others have to say in BiRequest’s fabulously safe, non-judgmental environment.

And if you can’t make it to the meeting, feel free to join us
afterward “eight-fifteenish” for dinner at:

Good Stuff Diner
109 West 14th Street
(north side of 14th St, just west of 6th Ave)

You are invited to join NARAL Pro-Choice New York’s Activist Leadership Circle!

The Activist Leadership Circle is a group for all people interested in getting more involved in NARAL Pro-Choice New York’s efforts.

Members of the Activist Leadership Circle meet once a month to discuss current reproductive health issues, learn about opportunities to participate and lead upcoming advocacy efforts, and develop new advocacy initiatives and campaigns.

The Circle has three Action Groups for members to join including the Outreach Action Group, Political and Legislative Action Group, and the Reproductive Health Education Group.

To join, you must participate in our 4-part series of new member trainings and events. Our next new member series kicks-off on Wednesday, May 12th.

Below is the complete new member training and event schedule:

Wednesday, 5/12/10, 6:00-8:00 pm: “Welcome & NARAL Pro-Choice New York 101”
Wednesday, 5/19/10, 6:00-8:00 pm: “How to Talk about the Issues and Take Action”
Thursday, 5/27/10, 6:30-8:30 pm: “Pro-Choice Action – Phone Bank”
Wednesday, 6/2/10, 6:00-8:00 pm: “Graduation and Welcome party”

Training takes place at NARAL Pro-Choice New York offices, which are located at 470 Park Avenue South, 7th Floor New York, NY 10016

For more information and to RSVP, please contact our Community Organizer anytime at lhoward@prochoiceny.org or 646-520-3506.

First Words – a poem by Cristina Dominguez

Hello, hi
Yes, I’m here..
answering a calling
stammering
clamming up,
gathering up the courage
How do I do this?
Is it a choice?
The voice that I use
to sing the hymn
that I choose?

I’d say anything
I don’t want to loose
where this is going,
But I’m already lost
I don’t want to be your token girl
Flailing–
failing to capture
the enrapture;
the love that I have
for them

I hear them
expire as they are spoken.
I’m choking on their meaning
as I aspire to
reach the speech
I’m climbing to give,
the life I’m dying to live
trying to sift through
the bullshit
to get to the me
that you can’t see,
that even I doubt
I can be

The one active-
present and pushing
The pen I explored
implored by
the brilliant beckoning
that forced me to
take on this reckoning
to feel around
in my desk drawer
before
I laid my head back
down
and tried
with much practical pride
to ignore
my wants
my thoughts
caught up in
where I’m headed
and where I’ve been

That’s why I’m here,
not out of some
insane belief
that I’ve got
the proof
of a gift
or the truth
or enough wit
to hide behind

I’m new to this
but I’m doing this
Because if I left my story untold
I’d age
be old in a way
that will leave me
in bed with regret,
at rest with the best of me
instead of letting it free

Clawing at the page
scrawling out
my rage
my affection
my craving
for the waves of my words
reaching your ears
and returning to me
ample in amplified intensity
and new meaning

I’m here out of fear
taking my step out there
out where
I’m openly
inwardly broken.
Where spoken word
means I’m heard,
where I’m whispering
my way to a scream

REVEAL conference: Young Women Defining the Divine

The REVEAL conference was founded for women of all ages to come together and hear the wisdom of a fiery, new generation of emerging female spiritual leaders.

Join us May 8th at Union Theological Seminary in NYC for REVEAL

To realize your soul’s strength and beauty…
To hear your spiritual voice, to take it seriously, and put it in service to the world…
To be part of a cutting edge movement that demands complete justice for women in the world especially in the realm of the sacred

Through sizzling, keynote speakers and experiential, interactive workshops, you will be given practical spiritual tools that will empower & inspire you to do what your soul longs most for you to do in the world!

Some of the trail-blazing, soul-voices you will experience at REVEAL 2010:

SERA BEAK, GABRIELLE BERNSTEIN, RHA GODDESS, JOANNA LINDENBAUM & DAWN COPELAND, NICOLE OHEBSHALOM, ALISA VITTI

To learn more about REVEAL: www.revealconference.org
To register for the REVEAL: http://www.revealconference.org/ConfDetails.html

There is nothing more powerful than a spiritually
empowered woman to create justice in her life and in our world.

There is currently an early-bird special of only $79 if you sign up before May 1st. To see a full list of presenters and to find out more about this amazing opportunity please visit our website.

SINGLE CHOICE: MANY LIVES, as part of REEL DIALOGUE – the free, ongoing, documentary film series

The Hunter College Department of Film & Media Studies and the
IMA/MFA Program in association with the Women and Gender Studies Program present
SINGLE CHOICE: MANY LIVES, as part of REEL DIALOGUE
-the free, ongoing, documentary film series

Monday – May 3, 2010
6:30PM Reception – 7:00PM Screening

Hunter College, 695 Park Avenue
Lang Recital Hall, 4th Floor, North Building
Entrance (69th Street between Lexington and Park Avenues, NYC)

Post-Screening Panel Discussion with Q&A
Filmmaker will be present

SINGLE CHOICE: MANY LIVES explores single motherhood via donor
insemination and its implications through the intimate
perspectives of mothers, donor-conceived individuals, and
donors, among others, to raise awareness about assisted
reproductive technologies and the growing trend of alternative
families. This relevant and timely film skillfully travels
around the country- and the heart- to get to the bottom of the
changing face of parenthood. More about the film at:
http://singlechoicemovie.com/

“SINGLE CHOICE: MANY LIVES slowly and artfully reveals layer
after layer of nuance and complexity. Hundhausen’s refusal to
provide simple answers could not be more provocative.”
-Steve Gorelick, Ph.D., Hunter College

Contact;
Tami Gold, Series Producer
212.772.4953
tamigold@mindspring.com

Don’t miss these great upcoming events in the NY birth community!

Wine tasting event to benefit Choices in Childbirth

Thursday, May 20th
6:30-8:30 pm

Moore Brothers Wine Company
33 East 20th Street, Manhattan

Sample delicious wines hand selected and generously donated by the Moore Brothers, enjoy live jazz music, and win great prizes from our silent auction.

Tickets $75 each. RSVP Required
Click here to RSVP.

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The Ecstatic Journey of Birth & Sex – this Friday!
A Sex-Positive Midwife’s Insights into the Original Mystery

Friday, April 30: 7:00-9:30 PM

Reflections Yoga: 250 West 49th Street

Women have one interconnected system for babies, bliss and bonding! Discover the integral relationship between the processes of birth, sexual arousal and orgasm.
Includes a discussion of fertility/infertility.

Pre-Register On-line Only $25 | $30-$50 sliding scale at the door

To pre-register: www.intimateartscenter.com

Sheri Winston is the evening’s presenter. Her book, Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure, just won the 2010 Book of the Year award from AASECT (the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists)!

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May’s FREE Meetings for New & Expectant Parents
Hosted Monthly by Choices in Childbirth

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Inspiring Birth Stories

Thursday, May 6th
6:15 – 8:30 pm
Still Hip*: 283 Grand Ave (Clinton Hill)
*Come early for exclusive shopping discounts!

RSVP here

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Healthy Birth Choices : Choosing your Care Provider & Setting

Monday, May 17th
6:15 – 8:30 pm
Realbirth: 715 9th Ave, Manhattan

RSVP here

Human Rights Campaign to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” – Be a part of it!

By Eric Alva
Retired Marine Staff Sergeant
Veterans Lobby Day Volunteer

I’ve spent three years telling my story to audiences across the country and working with the Human Rights Campaign to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” and I’ve never seen so much momentum to end this discriminatory policy.

In two weeks, we’re going to capture that momentum and bring it to Capitol Hill.

On May 11, I’ll be joining hundreds of other current and former members of the military at the Veterans Lobby Day to deliver one clear message to Congress – “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” must end this year.

HRC and Servicemembers United are working to make this event as high-profile and effective as possible, and the head count matters. A lot. We need all hands on deck.

If you have friends or family who are veterans, please spread the word about our Veterans Lobby Day – and encourage them to join us.
Send them here:

www.VeteransLobbyDay.org

I signed up for the Marines when I was just 19 years old. I served for 13 years, from Somalia to California to Japan, and then shipped out to Iraq. Three hours into the start of the ground war, I stepped on a landmine and almost lost my life.

I was the first American soldier wounded in Iraq; I received a Purple Heart, and President Bush visited me in the hospital. As I slowly recovered, the shame of this policy that forced me and thousands of other soldiers to hide began to enrage me.

I traveled to Washington and came out with my story, which was all over the national news. The response blew me away. Almost every single Marine I’d served with – gay and straight – called me with support. And I’ve been fighting this fight ever since.

Watching this campaign build over the past three years, I know how important this Lobby Day is in our battle for repeal. It’s our last chance to speak out before Congress takes action on the National Defense Authorization Act – the bill that should contain the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” repeal language.

So it’s crunch time. And whether you’re a veteran, a friend or relative of a service member, or simply someone who believes in equality, I hope you’ll support this Lobby Day and help us end “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.”

Learn how you – and any veterans you know – can be a part of this important day.

P.S. To learn more about HRC’s national campaign to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” or to take action right now, go to www.hrc.org/repealdadt.

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