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Cocktail Hour to support Feminist documentary “How to Lose Your Virginity”

Hosted by Josette Persson, Lisa Esselstein & Therese Shechter

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Hello Friends! It’s been too long… our last boozy gathering was back in April, before the days of flip flops and thunder storms. So we’ve planned another “Cocktail Hour” event. But who are we fooling? We’ll be there for more than 60 minutes. And we hope you will join us!

Like last time, we’re drinking with a purpose. Lisa and Therese are nearing the end of a Kickstarter campaign for Therese’s documentary film, HOW TO LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY, to kickstart the editing phase of the project. We’ve already raised 80% of our goal, with most of the pledges coming from people we’ve only met through the campaign. Once our friends, neighbors, colleagues and drinking buddies get involved (hey, that’s you!), we’ll sprint to the goal. But we have to raise 100% of our goal by July 1st or we get nothing — that’s how Kickstarter works.

Please go to our Kickstarter page and pledge what you can. And join us at Jake’s to drink as much as you can because the bar will be donating proceeds as well.

http://kck.st/9Hm93b

We hope to see you there!

Happy Hour to Benefit Trust Women PAC

Come meet your favorite feminists and drink to benefit Trust Women PAC!

Tues, June 29th
6-9 PM
4th Ave Pub
76 4th Ave. bet Bergen St. & St. Marks Pl., Brooklyn, NY

Sliding fee scale starting at $15. Donations benefit Trust Women PAC, an organization that works to protect the rights of abortion providers and fights anti-choice legislation.

Buy your ticket here: http://www.actblue.com/page/trustwomenhappyhour

Meet Julie Burkhart, Executive Director of Trust Women PAC. She worked side by side with Dr. George Tiller for 8 years and was the Chief Executive Officer of ProKanDo, a pro-woman, pro-choice political organization founded by Dr. Tiller.

Special guests: Jessica Coen, Anna North, Jenna Sauers, Sadie Stein, and Dodai Stewart, Jezebel.com / Shelby Knox, ShelbyKnox.com / Chloe Angyal, Feministing.com / Nona Willis Aronowitz, author of Girl Drive: Criss-Crossing America, Redefining Feminism / Amanda ReCupido, UnDomesticGoddess.com / Julie Klausner, author of “I Don’t Care About Your Band” / Doree Shafrir, contributing editor, New York magazine / Lynn Harris, author of “Death By Chick Lit.”

And MORE!
Subways: B/Q/2/3/4/5 (Atlantic Ave Station), D/M/R/N (Pacific St Station).

Questions? Comments? Contact hosts Steph (of IAmDrTiller.com and the AbortionGang.org) at sbherold@gmail.com or Irin (of Jezebel.com) at irincarmon@gmail.com.

To learn more about Trust Women PAC, visit http://www.trustwomenpac.org/

Women’s eNews 10th Birthday!

RSVP & More info
Date:
Sunday, June 27, 2010

Location:
Women’s eNews Headquarters
6 Barclay Street, 6th Floor, NY, NY 10007

Schedule

12 PM WELCOME POTLUCK BRUNCH (Please bring your favorite dish!)

1 PM  MAKING HYDE HISTORY

Presentation on the law barring federal money for abortion by Feminist Activist & Organizer Shelby Knox* and Aimee Thorne-Thomsen, Executive Director of the Pro-Choice Public Education Project (PEP) Open discussion and Q&A to follow

2:30 PM PRAY THE DEVIL BACK TO HELL FILM SCREENING

Introduction by Producer Abigail E. Disney*, featuring an overview of her upcoming PBS mini-series: Women, War & Peace, a five-part series on women’s role in war and peacebuilding

4:30 PM  OPENING THE WAY: A WOMEN’S HISTORY WALK

Lower Manhattan Tour led by Women’s eNews Editor in Chief Rita Henley Jensen

6:00 PM DINNER AT CHURCH & DEY RESTAURANT

Millenium Hilton – 55 Church Street, NY, NY 10007
($100 minimum contribution required for dinner reservation)

* Women’s eNews 21 Leaders for the 21st Century: Abigail E. Disney, 2004; Shelby Knox, 2007

For additional information or to RSVP, please email perrie@womensenews.org

Guest Post by Shelby Knox: My Day as an Anti-Feminist (Role) Model

By Shelby Knox

A couple of weeks ago I wrote this post soliciting advice and conversation about the request that I “dress like a feminist” for a photo spread to be featured in a mainstream women’s magazine as a representative of the next generation of feminism, or as they keep putting it, “the next Gloria Steinem.”

The shoot was last week and I took my readers’ fantastic advice – thanks for that, by the way! – and packed in my hanging bag several outfits in which I feel comfortable, happy, and most of all, me.

Yet the clothes I’d worked so hard to pick out were destined never to make it out of the bag.  Instead, the fantastic stylist had gone through the mag’s generously stocked designer closet and picked out clothes for us that will be at the peak of style when the issue comes out in the fall. This, at first, was fine by me – this thrift store girl will transform into a fashion diva on your dime any day!

Let me stop here and explain something that’s not shocking at all considering I was socialized female in American society: I’ve struggled with my weight and body image issues for as long as I can remember. I went to Weight Watchers for the first time when I was 11 and tried out every fad diet I could find in my mother’s magazines. I spent many years sobbing in dressing rooms, at swimming pools and school dances and talent shows, because I could never fit into the blonde, rail-thin ideal of a pretty Texas girl.

After I got to New York and into feminist activism, I gained a perspective on beauty that eased my body hatred a bit. I realized that what’s ugly in one culture is desirable in another and vice versa and that this constant pressure – applied to women by the media, our friends, our family, random strangers on the street and online – to be unnaturally thin is another form of sexism that at best hobbles women by making us spend unnatural amounts of time concerned with our appearance and at worst, kills.

So, when I walked into that photo shoot last Wednesday, I thought I’d made a fragile peace with my size 12 body. I’d decided that I liked the young women I speak to on campuses seeing a real-looking woman speaking her truth and making waves in the world. I know in my feminist heart of hearts that my words and actions matter far more than the packaging they come in– and, by Goddess, a little extra packaging can be just as hot!

That peace started to crumble fast when all the other women profiled – an amazing cast, including a playwright, a politician, an FBI agent and a fashion designer, among others, who for some reason all happened to be thin and drop dead conventionally gorgeous  – were given 7 or 8 fantastic outfits to try on. Since designers don’t usually provide size 12 samples, I got a wrap dress that made me look like a sail, a silk dress that made me look like a sail boat, and an embroidered leather jacket that, had it fit, would have been a huge break in solidarity with my allies in the animals rights movement. I pushed back tears, told that evil voice in my head saying, “disgusting cow” over and over again to shut up, and willed myself to smile and walk out of the dressing room in the “sail boat” option.

A pair of fierce, black, six inch platform boots and really awesome snake bracelets made me feel slightly better, but not for long. When we lined up for a once-over from the staff, I was transported back to Lubbock, TX and into a picture of me and a group of friends dressed in the same white dress, except mine was three sizes larger. I was then, and I realized standing in the line-up, always will be, the “smart one” or the “talented one” but never, ever the “pretty one.”

I know how it works at group photo shoots: the director pulls different people in and out of the shot to see whose outfits and look work together. Yet as I got pulled in and out of every single shot, I couldn’t help but be sure it was because of how horrible I looked. I cried in the bathroom three different times – the make-up artist loved that – and in a moment of being truly flustered, fell to the asphalt in my impossibly high heels and ripped up my legs, as you can see in the photo below.

My bruised, scraped up legs and the perpetrators, fantastically fierce black spiked heel boots.

I was eventually photographed in the last shot of the day and that part was surprisingly fine – years of posing for headshots, newspapers, and Facebook photos kicked in and I needed the least direction of anyone in my group. As I took off the dress and heels and prepared to leave in my own long, flowing skirt, I couldn’t decide if I was more pissed that I’d been made into some editor’s idea of “High Fashion Feminist Barbie” or that I’d failed so miserably in executing the role at every possible turn. The next Gloria Steinem, huh? Yeah – without the beauty or the grace!

So I signed on to spend my life fighting against the beauty myth in all its insidious forms and what did I do? Fall hopelessly prey to it, and on my face too.

Even though that evil voice in my head – which is, not coincidentally, male and hisses like Hanibal Lecter – is telling me this makes me a bad feminist, it simply means that I, like most women and some men, can still succumb to society’s false paradigm that beauty and worth are correlated. It reminded me how invaluable feminism’s campaign for real beauty standards is because I never want another woman to feel the way I did during that shoot.

It was also a reminder that, even if people are calling me a role model, or perhaps especially so, I’m still very much in the process of birthing myself into the woman I want to be and stripping away the layers of myself that have been torn and scarred by sexism and oppression and personal pain. It’s an excruciating process at times, but a necessary one.

In this case, I’m vowing to do some reading on feminism and body image – suggestions in the comments appreciated! – and feed and exercise my body in a manner so that it’s healthier, if not smaller. I’m going to consciously banish that creepy, self-hating voice from my head and ask myself each time I want to succumb to it’s lull if I would say to a fellow woman such awful things.

After all, it wouldn’t do the movement any good if I or anyone else waits to do radical social justice work until we’re “feminist enough,” unblemished, for public consumption. I don’t believe my sisters will be put off by my scars and scrapes but instead will see them and be more able to see, accept, and heal their own.

Or, at the very least, they’ll see my legs and skip the six-inch heels.

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This post was originally published at The Ms. Education Of Shelby Knox, and was republished with permission. Shelby Knox can be contacted at shelbyknoxblog@gmail.com.

Meet Shelby on July 14th at 7pm in NYC! We are honored to host Shelby Knox, nationally known feminist organizer & subject of the Sundance award-winning film, “The Education of Shelby Knox” as the moderator for Paradigm Shift’s next event, “GUYLAND: THE PERILOUS WORLD WHERE BOYS BECOME MEN” a lecture and discussion featuring Dr. Michael Kimmel, PhD, Author & World-renown Sociologist.  More info and !

Everyday is a HOLLAday: Hollaback! iPhone App & Site Launch Party

Come and celebrate the beginning of the end of street harassment! After five years of running Hollaback as a blog, we’re growing up, relaunching our site, and launching an iPhone app that will track exactly when and where street harassment happens. We’re building a world where everyone has the right to feel safe, confident, and sexy – one hollaback at time. Dolly Trolly and DJs Miss Bliss and Emily Allen will be spinning killer tunes throughout the night. More entertainment will be announced in the coming weeks.

Location:
Southpaw
125 5th Ave
Brooklyn, NY

Tickets are $12 at the door
And $8 for our fabulous KickStarter contributors!
All proceeds benefit Hollaback!

Get in for FREE by becoming a HOLLAhero!
To become a HOLLAhero you can either:
-Bring 10 friends
-Bring 5 friends and 1 silent auction item
-Bring 2 silent auction items
Please note, HOLLAheroes must sign up in advance of the event.

Email Rebecca at rebecca@ihollaback.org if you are interested in becoming a HOLLAhero or for event details.

For more information, check out the facebook event page!

UPDATE: We’re thrilled to announce that we have an Android app and SMS texting in the works as well!

FINAL REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH ACT PHONE BANK OF 2010

MONDAY, JUNE 21st 6:30-8:30 PM

NARAL PRO-CHOICE NEW YORK OFFICES

470 PARK AVENUE SOUTH, 7th FLOOR NYC

Join us as we mobilize NARAL Pro-Choice New York supporters to call
Majority Leader, John Sampson to urge him to bring RHA to the floor
and get it passed in 2010! Training and pizza will be provided to
all.

You can also participate from home as long as you have a computer with
high-speed internet access and a phone.

RSVP TO LHOWARD@PROCHOICENY.ORG OR 646-520-3506

Lalena Howard, MSW
Community Organizer
NARAL Pro-Choice New York
646-520-3506
lhoward@prochoiceny.org
www.prochoiceny.org

Sign the Reproductive Health Act petition on-line!:

http://www.prochoiceny.org/getinvolved/rhapetition.shtml

Femme Total: A Night of Burlesque, Pole Dancing and Juggling!

…all performed to the live music of Molly Does Not Approve!. You have never seen anything like this!

→ Pole By Kyra Johannesen and Michelle Stanek
→ Burlesque by Rhinestone Follies.
-→ Kita St. Cyr (The Cutie with The Bootie)
-→ Hazel Honeysuckle (The Sparkly Sweetie-Pie)
-→ Beelzebabe (Siren of Sodom)
-→ Plus Special Guest Latex Lily!
→ Juggling by Jen Slaw.
→ Live music (Vintage Americana) by Molly Does Not Approve
-→ Molly Mae (Vocals)
-→ Bjorn Roche (Upright Bass)
-→ Michael Rutberg (Guitar+Piano)
-→ Jake Hart (Drums)
→ DJ sets by Tiffany of SixSixSick
→ Hosted by Susie Cosmo

Thursday, June 24, 2010 at 9:30pm

Location:
R Bar
218 Bowery
New York, NY

Check out the Facebook event page for more info.

Admission is $14 and $10 with the flyer shown above. Good for discount admission for 2.

Shifting the Gaze: Painting and Feminism

Opens at The Jewish Museum on September 12th

Key Works by Judy Chicago, Eva Hesse, Lee Krasner,
Miriam Schapiro, Nicole Eisenman and Others on View

New York, NY – Feminist challenges to creative and institutional limits have been widely influential in art since the 1960s, with the emergence of the women’s art movement in the United States. The Jewish Museum will present Shifting the Gaze: Painting and Feminism, an exhibition exploring the impact of feminism on contemporary painting, from September 12, 2010 through January 30, 2011. Taking the visitor through a half-century of painting, the exhibition focuses on art at the crossroads of societal shift and individual expression. Shifting the Gaze places feminist art in a larger context exploring its roots in Abstract Expressionism, Pop and Minimalism, and extending to the present, when feminist impulses remain vital in recent works targeting the representation of women in popular culture.

The exhibition examines interactions of the politics and theory of feminism with the practices and styles of painting. Feminist ideas and aesthetics transformed art, opening up the field to the full range of women’s experience, history and material culture. Feminism retains its power to inspire new ideas and challenge old ones, shifting the gaze to unexplored perspectives. It remains an active force in contemporary art today.

Shifting the Gaze: Painting and Feminism, with over 30 paintings and several sculptures and decorative objects, is largely drawn from The Jewish Museum’s collection and also includes select loans. Works by 27 artists such as Judy Chicago, Louise Fishman, Leon Golub, Eva Hesse, Deborah Kass, Lee Krasner, Louise Nevelson, Elaine Reichek, Miriam Schapiro, Joan Snyder, Nancy Spero, and Hannah Wilke, among others, are arranged thematically. Nicole Eisenman will create a painting of a family seder specially for the exhibition. Eight works in Shifting the Gaze have been acquired over the last three years.

Gestural and Abstract Expressionist paintings created at the dawn of feminism in postwar America open the show. Next are mostly self-portraits that demythologize the female body and male representations of it. The third group features embroidery, collage and fan painting as examples of the 1970s art movement, Pattern and Decoration, which sought to reinvigorate previously denigrated women’s work. Politics, the Holocaust and war are then examined through feminist interpretations, followed by the use of writing and text in art. A final section devoted to popular culture and satire closes the show.

Jewish painters have played decisive roles in founding and sustaining major feminist art groups and theories while continuing to develop their own avant-garde art. The selected works reveal Jewish and feminist commitments to both social justice and personal freedom. The works on view are animated by the tensions between individual expression and collective politics, and a traditional medium and radical action.

Shifting the Gaze examines the ways that artists (male and female) challenge discrimination, advocate self-expression and invent new forms of beauty, breathing life into the medium and offering fresh visions of the world. Much of the feminist movement aimed to overcome the male-dominated modes of heroic and formalist painting. To this day, artists inspired by feminism take on taboo subjects and stretch techniques in abstraction, decoration, collage, embroidery and representation.

The exhibition has been organized by Daniel Belasco, Henry J. Leir Assistant Curator at The Jewish Museum. He specializes in postwar and contemporary art and design, and is currently completing a book on feminist consciousness in New School art. Daniel Belasco is also co-curator of SITE Santa Fe’s Eighth International Biennial exhibition (June 2010-January 2011). He holds a PhD and MA from the Institute of Fine Arts, New York University.

Shifting the Gaze: Painting and Feminism is made possible, in part, by the Melva Bucksbaum Fund for Contemporary Art.

Website

As part of the Shifting the Gaze exhibition section on The Jewish Museum’s website (www.thejewishmuseum.org), a list of over 550 woman artists who have been shown in special exhibitions at the Museum since 1947 will be made available.

About The Jewish Museum

Widely admired for its exhibitions and educational programs that inspire people of all backgrounds, The Jewish Museum is the preeminent United States institution exploring the intersection of 4,000 years of art and Jewish culture. The Jewish Museum was established in 1904, when Judge Mayer Sulzberger donated 26 ceremonial art objects to The Jewish Theological Seminary of America as the core of a museum collection. Today, the Museum maintains an important collection of 26,000 objects—paintings, sculpture, works on paper, photographs, archaeological artifacts, ceremonial objects, and broadcast media.

General Information

Museum hours are Saturday, Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday, 11am to 5:45pm; Thursday, 11am to 8pm; and Friday, 11am to 4pm. Museum admission is $12.00 for adults, $10.00 for senior citizens, $7.50 for students, free for children under 12 and Jewish Museum members. Admission is free on Saturdays. For general information on The Jewish Museum, the public may visit the Museum’s website at http://www.thejewishmuseum.org or call 212.423.3200. The Jewish Museum is located at 1109 Fifth Avenue at 92nd Street, Manhattan.

Artists Represented in the Exhibition

Ida Applebroog, American, b. 1929
Judy Chicago, American, b. 1939
Rosalyn Drexler, b. 1926
Nicole Eisenman, American, b. 1965
Louise Fishman, American, b. 1939
Audrey Flack, American, b. 1931
Dana Frankfort, American, b. 1971
Leon Golub, American, 1922-2004
Eva Hesse, American, b. Germany, 1936-1970
Deborah Kass, American, b. 1952
Vivienne Koorland, American, b. South Africa, 1957
Joyce Kozloff, American, b. 1942
Lee Krasner, American, 1908-1984
Robert Kushner, American, b. 1949
Cary Leibowitz, American, b. 1963
Lee Lozano, American, 1930- 1999
Melissa Meyer, American, b. 1947
Louise Nevelson, American, b. Russia, 1899-1988
Elaine Reichek, American, b. 1943
Miriam Schapiro, American, b. Canada, 1923
Mira Schor, American, b. 1950
Dana Schutz, American, b. 1976
Joan Semmel, American, b. 1932
Amy Sillman, American, b. 1954
Joan Snyder, American, b. 1940
Nancy Spero, American, b. 1926
Hannah Wilke, American, 1940-1993

Philosophize about Hedwig and the Angry Inch on Friday 25!

Philm: Philosophy and Film at the East Side Institute
with Chris Helm and Rafael Mendez

Friday, June 25, 6:30pm
920 Broadway, 14th floor (betw. 20 & 21 Streets)
Suggested Donation, $12.00
Reserve your seat now!

It’s Friday-night-at-the-movies with a philosophical and methodological twist! Enjoy a favorite film, followed by some playful, philosophical conversation.


Hedwig and the Angry Inch (2001)… The subversive spirit of rock lives on in this merry satire and powerful drama. When gender is up for grabs, where do we look for identity?

Christine Helm earned an M.A. in Anthropology and Education and an M.Ed. in Applied Anthropology at Teachers College, Columbia University. She is director of the Enterprise Center at the Fashion Institute of Technology/SUNY and teaches at both the undergraduate and graduate level. Chris is a faculty member for the Institute’s International Class and Therapist Training Program.

Rafael Mendez is an associate professor and coordinator of psychology at Bronx Community College, his alma mater. He earned his doctorate in Clinical-Community Psychology at Boston University in 1983 and was a Clinical Fellow at Harvard Medical School at Children’s Hospital in Boston. He’s a trained social therapist practicing at the Brooklyn Social Therapy Group and is on the faculty of the East Side Institute where he assists in leading Fred Newman’s Developmental Philosophy Group.

To register go to: http://www.acteva.com/booking.cfm?bevaid=195843 or contact Melissa Meyer 212.941.8906, ext 304 or mmeyer@eastsideinstitute.org

Community Forum in Response to Seward Park Library Sexual Assault

COMMUNITY FORUM THIS SUNDAY IN RESPONSE TO SEWARD PARK LIBRARY INCIDENT

Sunday, June 6, 2010
1:00pm to 2:30pm
Mazer Theater of The Educational Alliance
197 East Broadway

(This forum takes place exactly one month
from the day a 9-year old girl was sexually-assaulted inside the library.)

What? This is a public forum for families, leaders, and elected officials to discuss and raise awareness on preventing sexual assault of children.

Why is this important? Come and share your views. Learn how communities prevent and address these kinds of crimes in our community.

Special thanks to Seward Park CO-OP, 7th Precinct Community Council, and The Lo Down NY and these supporting organizations/companies (in formation):

Beth Israel Rape Crisis and Domestic Violence Intervention Program
Chinese Consolidated Benevolent Association of New York
Chinatown Ice Cream Factory
Chinatown Sports Club
Chinese Chamber of Commerce of New York
DOVE Program at the New York Presbyterian Hospital
The Educational Alliance
HealthFirst
Henry Street Settlement
Kaimen Company
Lin Sing Association
MaxDelivery.com
Museum of Chinese in America
New York Asian Women’s Center
The New York Center for Children
New York City Alliance Against Sexual Assault
New York State Coalition Against Sexual Assault
NY Strangers Sports Association
Paradigm Shift: NYC’s Feminist Community
Parent Association of PS 184M Shuang Wen
Primitive Christian Church
Project ENVISION, Lower East Side Coalition
RAINN (Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network)
Sexual Assault and Violence Intervention Program at The Mount Sinai Medical Center
United Fujianese of American Association
United Jewish Council of East Side
Vision Urbana, Inc.

To volunteer or add your organization to this list, call (727) 851-6289.

Visit The Lo Down NY’s facebook events page to see
up to date information on speakers.
http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=126303760732923&index=1

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