Hello World — by Danielle Paradis

Hello World

There’s lady blogs all over the internet tackling the issues of pop culture, and how it intersects with the attitudes and behaviors of women. A few of my favorites include, but by no means are limited to XOJane, Persephone Magazine, and Bitch Media. Often, these are dismissed by anti-feminists as middle-class feminist issues and therefore not worthy of discussion or evidence of our near-sightedness. I don’t know a feminist worth her (or his salt) who is not concerned with the way that women are treated overseas, but there are some issues that still need to be tackled at home. We can’t always push off the concern towards the ways women are treated ‘elsewhere’ as that idea borders on xenophobia—it is easy to see a broken ideology in a culture that you are not a part of. It is harder to challenge those ideas in your own. We can do both, we have the power!

As the new blogger in town, I wanted to introduce my self and some of the topics that I will be writing about. My name is Danielle Paradis and I am 25 I live in Alberta, Canada and I am currently taking my Master of Arts in Learning and Technology. I started school wanting to be a writer and I have ended up a bit of an (inept) technology nerd. Social justice has always played large in my life. I joined Amnesty International in high school and I have remained a donor and letter-writer for their campaigns ever since. I’ve been to Brazil to visit the favelas and teach the children English, and to help renovate their homes. In my studies, I am particularly concerned with the way we can make education more open, more freely accessible to all people.

I’ve been a feminist since about 18, and one of the most influential books I ever read on Feminism was Ariel Levy’s “Female Chauvinist Pigs”.  I’m very proud to call myself a feminist. I don’t hate men, I’m very fond of them. I have a lot of male mentors and friends in my life. It was actually a man, my first year college teacher, who really got me to start thinking critically about the way society works. And, another male teacher taught me rhetoric and pop culture. You can say these men have helped me to become the feminist that I am (which is hopefully a woman they can be proud of).

I love writing about international feminist issues, sex, language usage, books, and cultural critique.

Now you know me (and if you have questions you need only ask) let’s cuddle up with feminism some more. This year during Makers Gloria Steinem was asked by someone what she should say when asked what a feminist was. Her answer: send them to the dictionary.

For our reference, the Oxford dictionary defines the movement thusly:

feminism |ˈfeməˌnizəm|

noun

the advocacy of women’s rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.

The issue of rights for women first became prominent during the French and American revolutions in the late 18th century. In Britain it was not until the emergence of the suffragette movement in the late 19th century that there was significant political change. A ‘second wave’ of feminism arose in the 1960s, with an emphasis on unity and sisterhood.

ORIGIN late 19th cent.: from French féminisme .

Additionally intersectionality is a big interest of mine. It is a feminist-sociological theory described very well by the Geek Feminism Wiki as

a concept often used in critical theories to describe the ways in which oppressive institutions (racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, xenophobia, classism, etc.) are interconnected and cannot be examined separately from one another. Third Wave Feminism, especially, thrived on the concept of intersectionality in order to redefine Feminism as inclusive. The concept first came from legal scholar Kimberle Crenshaw in 1989 and is largely used in critical theories, especially Feminist theory, when discussing  systematic oppression.

I try to never say what a person should or should not believe. Feminism is not a monolith, and there are almost as many feminisms as there are people that call themselves feminists. However, intersectionality is an important topic to look at because is addresses more than just the middle-class feminism that people who are anti-feminist critique us for. We need, as feminists to be culturally inclusive, and sensitive to the ways in which oppression, and patriarchal systems affect everyone.

There’s a lot of work that feminists have to do still, ladies and gentlemen. One of the most important things you need to know is that our work, our thoughts are important.

Pointing out the sexual objectification of women in the media or the victimization and rape-culture surrounding us is not denying women sexual agency or infantilizing. Feminists should believe that women are strong! We are. Look how far we have come from the 19th Century.

What we do when we think critically about feminist issues and speak out is stand up against victimization. We say: it is no longer acceptable to us that society sees us as prizes to be won, and denies us the access to education and jobs due to our gender. It is no longer acceptable that “feminine” be seen as weaker or less capable than “masculine”. The sisterhood is strong.

Wrote this listening to the Stitch and Bitch Playlist on Songza

You can find me at danielleparadis.com or Twtter: @daniparadis

Exclusive interview with political analyst, writer and rape survivor, Zerlina Maxwell

Exclusive interview with political analyst, writer and rape survivor, Zerlina Maxwell.

Over the past week she has received racially fueled death threats for speaking out against rape. In case you missed it, Maxwell appeared on a Fox News segment with Sean Hannity last week about the possibility of arming women to prevent rape. She said the responsibility should lie instead with men rather than women. In response to her remarks, Maxwell received mass abuse on social media with commenters saying she deserved to be gang-raped and killed. Despite all the threats, she joins us to discuss her ordeal and refusal to be silent.

Check out the interview here: http://www.democracynow.org/2013/3/15/teaching_men_not_to_rape_survivor

The complete transcript will be posted soon on our website. We also encourage to join the discussion about this interview on our Facebook and Google+ pages.

CONNECT Training on Understanding Domestic Violence: Essentials and Intersections

Understanding Domestic Violence: Essentials and Intersections

Fridays
4/5/13, 4/12/13, 4/19/13, & 4/26/13

9:45am – 5:00pm

CONNECT’s four-day intensive workshop on the fundamentals of domestic violence (also known as Intimate Partner Violence).  CONNECT staff and guest speakers discuss the types, tactics, and dynamics of abuse emphasizing the intersections between intimate violence and the many health and social justice issues affecting New York City’s communities.

Topics include:

  • Why men batter and abuse,  
  • IPV related trauma and vicarious trauma 
  •  the impact of intimate violence on women and children
  • How culture and faith shape our responses to domestic violence 
  • How intimate partner violence affects LGBTQ relationships  
  • domestic violence and HIV/AIDS  
  • Domestic Violence and substance abuse 
  • The navigation of social service and legal systems.
  • Safety Planning  

Materials fee is $200 per participant.  Sliding scale is available, organizational budget will be required for sliding scale eligibility.  Go to www.connectnyc.org or call (212) 683-0015 ext.215 for more course information.  CLICK HERE to enroll.  Understanding Domestic Violence is the prerequisite course for all CONNECT Training Institute courses.

Paradigm Shift April 25th Event Launch Coming Soon!

MYD’s Fourth Annual Engendering Process!

Honorees include:
Feminist author and blogger Jessica ValentiGirl Develop It, an international non-profit that provides affordable and accessible programs for women who want to learn software development through mentorship and hands-on instruction

Sanctuary for Families, the leading nonprofit in New York dedicated exclusively to serving victims of domestic violence, sex trafficking victims and their children

Wednesday, April 3, 2013, 7 p.m. at Hudson Terrace, 621 West 46th St

Facebook Link: 
https://www.facebook.com/events/351672048284765/

Tomorrow: V-Day Events In NYC!

ONE BILLION RISING: February 14, 2013, New Yorkers Will Rise!

NYC Joins V-Day’s Global Day of Action to End Violence Against Women and Girls with Nearly 100 Events Across the City

Events in NYC include:

1) Times Square March to Hammerstein Ballroom- 2/14 at 5-7 PM

https://secure.onebillionrising.org/page/event/detail/4vx8z

2) Free screening of “From Fear to Freedom: Ending Violence Against Women”

2/14 at 6:30 PM- Brooklyn Arts Exchange, 421 Fifth Ave, Brooklyn

Presented by Safe Homes Project and Center for Anti-Violence Education

RSVP: info@safehomesproject.org

3) Finale Event, RISE NYC at Hammerstein Ballroom

Featuring Special Guests Glenn Close, Rosario Dawson, and Donna Karan, with performances by Maya Azucena, BETTY,Suheir Hammad, Morley, DJ Beverly Bond, Hesta Prynn, DJ Spinna, and more

Doors open 7pm, Program 8pm- 12 midnight

311 West 34th St. NYC, rsvp at onebillionrising.org/risenyc

On February 14, New York City — joining people in 194 countries – will come together to express their outrage, strike, dance and RISE to support an end to violence against women once and for all. ONE BILLION RISING will be the largest day of mass action ever to stop violence against women and girls. Close to one hundred ONE BILLION RISING events are being planned throughout New York City and the surrounding areas on February 14.

ONE BILLION RISING, first announced on Valentine’s Day 2012, began as a call to action based on the staggering statistic that 1 in 3 women on the planet will be beaten or raped during her lifetime. With the world population at 7 billion, this adds up to more than ONE BILLION WOMEN AND GIRLS. On February 14, 2013, V-Day’s 15th anniversary, activists, writers, thinkers, workers, students, poets, dancers, parliamentarians, mayors, state representatives, celebrities, and women and men across the world will come together to express their outrage, strike, dance, and RISE in defiance of the injustices women suffer, demanding an end at last to violence against women.

Black History Month Play Festival Feb 8-24, 2013: New Play by Clare Coss, featured PS Playwright/Performer

Celebrate Black History Month
Woodie King, Jr’s National Black Touring Circuit
presents
Dr. Du Bois and Miss Ovington,
by Clare Coss
Starring Kathleen Chalfant and Peter Jay Fernandez
Directed by Gabrielle Kurlander
  Fri. February 22, 7:30PM; Sat. February 23, 7:30PM; Sun. February 24, 3 PM.
Castillo Theatre
543 West 42nd Street (bt 10 & 11)
Ticket Central 212 279 4200  $20.

National Black Touring Circuit

Woodie King, Jr., Producer/ Director | Kim Weston-Moran, Associate Producer

Presents

BLACK HISTORY MONTH PLAY FESTIVAL

February 8-24, 2013


ADAM

Starring Timothy Simonson

co-produced in concert with Voza Rivers & New Heritage Repertory Theatre

by Peter Anda

Directed by Shauneille Perry

Stage Manager:Bayo

Fri., February 8 @7:30pm | Sat., February 9 @7:30pm | Sun., February 10 @3pm

Dwyer Cultural Center | 258 St. Nicholas Avenue (enter on 123rd St.) | Harlem, NYC

 

HE WHO ENDURES

Starring Ralph McCain, Norman Marshall, Marcus Naylor, and Leopold Lowe

in association with National Black Theatre

by Bill Harris

Directed by Ajene Washington

Stage Manager: Fulton Hodges

Fri., February 15 @ 7:30pm | Sat., February 16 @ 7:30pm | Sun., February 17 @ 3pm

National Black Theatre | 2031 5th Avenue (at 125th St.) | Harlem, NYC


DR. DUBOIS AND MISS OVINGTON

Starring Kathleen Chalfant and Peter Jay Fernandez

produced in association with Castillo Theatre

by Clare Coss

Directed by Gabrielle Kurlander

Stage Manager: Bayo

Fri., February 22 @7:30pm | Sat., February 23 @7:30pm | Sun., February 24 @3pm

Castillo Theatre | 543 West 42nd Street (bet. 10th and 11th Ave.) | Midtown, NYC

Athena Film Festival

The ATHENA FILM FESTIVAL shines the light on women and leadership in film.  Paradigm Shift has been a proud partner since the festival’s launch three year ago.  The full program and special events are now available on their website http://athenafilmfestival.com. If you’re able to spread the word about Athena, please do!  You can stay connected with the fest on Facebook and Twitter where they will be posting any updates until the festival.

We have a great lineup of directors scheduled to attend for Q&As, including Brenda Chapman for Brave, Mary Fishman for Band of Sisters, David Riker for The Girl, Angela Alford for Granny’s Got Game, Andrea Meyerson for I Stand Corrected, Bonnie McFarlane for Women Aren’t Funny, Ava DuVernay for Middle of Nowhere and Cecilia Peck Voll for Brave Miss World. We also have producers, screenwriters, the stars of several of the films and more!

Tickets can be purchased here.

PARADIGM SHIFT MEMBER DISCOUNT – enter the code AFFSPON21 at checkout to receive a discount on any full-priced ticket (reducing the price from $12 to $10).  All tickets are $5 for students.

If you know anyone who is interested in attending the festival with younger viewers, please email us at athenafilmfestival@gmail.com.

Trust Women Week Jan 22-28

Today is the 40th anniversary of the Supreme Court’s Roe v. Wade decision that legalized abortion. The Feminist Majority Foundation is partnering this week with the Trust Women/Silver Ribbon Campaign and over 45 other organizations to build momentum and solidarity for reproductive health, rights and justice.

Won’t you join the march and forward this to your friends and family?

Pro-choice women and men spoke out resoundingly in the 2012 elections – defeating some of the most virulently anti-choice candidates and re-electing President Obama, a staunch supporter of women’s reproductive rights and health. And we defeated a ballot measure in Florida that would have outlawed public funding for abortion and endangered all women should Roe ever be overturned.

But despite these victories, extreme anti-choice members of Congress wasted no time in re-introducing legislation to cut off family planning funding. And right-wing governors and state legislators escalated their War on Women. In its lame duck session, the Michigan legislature passed an extreme TRAP law (Targeted Regulations of Abortion Providers) in an effort to close abortion clinics. In Mississippi, the only remaining clinic is threatened with closure should a federal court allow that state’s TRAP law to go into effect.

We must make sure our voices are heard! So we are joining over 45 organizations in the Trust Women online march – please join today!

The majority of women and men across the country support comprehensive healthcare for women and reproductive freedom – and yet we are still fighting for our fundamental rights. This online march is a way for us to stand in solidarity, show our numbers, and send a strong message to elected officials that we’re watching and we vote.

Click here to join the march and send your message supporting abortion and contraception access for all women today.

When you join the online march, you’ll be able to see messages from people marching around the country, and you’ll be able to choose your own message to send in support of comprehensive women’s health care.

So please join the online March for Trust Women Week now and make your voice be heard!

For women’s equality,
Ellie Smeal
Feminist Majority Foundation President

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